2008-11-12

30 Books Everyone Should Read Before Their 30th Birthday

30 Books Everyone Should Read Before Their 30th Birthday | Brazen Careerist: "The Web is grand. With its fame for hosting informative, easy-to-skim textual snippets and collaborative written works, people are spending more and more time reading online. Nevertheless, the Web cannot replace the authoritative transmissions from certain classic books that have delivered (or will deliver) profound ideas around the globe for generations.
The 30 books listed here are of unparalleled prose, packed with wisdom capable of igniting a new understanding of the world. Everyone should read these books before their 30th birthday.

1. Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse – A powerful story about the importance of life experiences as they relate to approaching an understanding of reality and attaining enlightenment.
2. 1984 by George Orwell – 1984 still holds chief significance nearly 60 years after it was written in 1949. It is widely acclaimed for its haunting vision of an all-knowing government which uses pervasive, 24/7 surveillance tactics to manipulate all citizens of the populace.
3. To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee – The story surveys the controversial issues of race and economic class in the 1930’s Deep South via a court case of a black man charged with the rape and abuse of a young white girl. It’s a moving tale that delivers a profound message about fighting for justice and against prejudice.
4. A Clockwork Orange by Anthony Burgess – A nightmarish vision of insane youth culture that depicts heart wrenching insight into the life of a disturbed adolescent. This novel will blow you away… leaving you breathless, livid, thrilled, and concerned.
5. For Whom the Bell Tolls by Ernest Hemingway – A short, powerful contemplation on death, ideology and the incredible brutality of war.
6. War and Peace by Leo Tolstoy – This masterpiece is so enormous even Tolstoy said it couldn’t be described as a standard novel. The storyline takes place in Russian society during the Napoleonic Era, following the characters of Andrei, Pierre and Natasha… and the tragic and unanticipated way in which their lives interconnect.
7. The Rights of Man by Tom Paine – Written during the era of the French Revolution, this book was one of the first to introduce the concept of human rights from the standpoint of democracy.
8. The Social Contract by Jean-Jacques Rousseau – A famous quote from the book states that “Man is born free, and everywhere he is in chains.” This accurately summarizes the book’s prime position on the importance of individual human rights within society.
9. One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel García Márquez – This novel does not have a plot in the conventional sense, but instead uses various narratives to portray a clear message about the general importance of remembering our cultural history.
10. The Origin of Species by Charles Darwin – Few books have had as significant an impact on the way society views the natural world and the genesis of humankind.
11. The Wisdom of the Desert by Thomas Merton – A collection of thoughts, meditations and reflections that give insight into what life is like to live simply and purely, dedicated to a greater power than ourselves.
12. The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell – Gladwell looks at how a small idea, or product concept, can spread like a virus and spark global sociological changes. Specifically, he analyzes “the levels at which the momentum for change becomes unstoppable.”
13. The Wind in the Willows by Kenneth Graham – Arguably one of the best children’s books ever written; this short novel will help you appreciate the simple pleasures in life. It’s most notable for its playful mixture of mysticism, adventure, morality, and camaraderie.
14. The Art of War by Sun Tzu – One of the oldest books on military strategy in the world. It’s easily the most successful written work on the mechanics of general strategy and business tactics.
15. The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien – One of the greatest fictional stories ever told, and by far one of the most popular and influential written works in 20th-century literature. Once you pick up the first book, you’ll read them all.
16. David Copperfield by Charles Dickens – This is a tale that lingers on the topic of attaining and maintaining a disciplined heart as it relates to one’s emotional and moral life. Dickens states that we must learn to go against “the first mistaken impulse of the undisciplined heart.”
17. Four Quartets by T.S. Eliot – Probably the wisest poetic prose of modern times. It was written during World War II, and is still entirely relevant today… here’s an excerpt: “The dove descending breaks the air/With flame of incandescent terror/Of which the tongues declare/The only discharge from sin and error/The only hope, or the despair/Lies in the choice of pyre or pyre–/To be redeemed from fire by fire./Who then devised this torment?/Love/Love is the unfamiliar Name/Behind the hands that wave/The intolerable shirt of flame/Which human power cannot remove./We only live, only suspire/Consumed by either fire or fire.”
18. Catch-22 by Joseph Heller – This book coined the self-titled term “catch-22” that is widely used in modern-day dialogue. As for the story, its message is clear: What’s commonly held to be good, may be bad… what is sensible, is nonsense. Its one of the greatest literary works of the 20th century. Read it.
19. The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald – Set in the Jazz Age of the roaring 20’s, this book unravels a cautionary tale of the American dream. Specifically, the reader learns that a few good friends are far more important that a zillion acquaintances, and the drive created from the desire to have something is more valuable than actually having it.
20. The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger – This novel firmly stands as an icon for accurately representing the ups and downs of teen angst, defiance and rebellion. If nothing else, it serves as a reminder of the unpredictable teenage mindset.
21. Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoyevsky – A smooth-flowing, captivating novel of a young man living in poverty who criminally succumbs to the desire for money, and the hefty phychological impact this has on him and the people closest to him.
22. The Prince by Niccolo Machiavelli – This book does a great job at describing situations of power and statesmanship. From political and corporate power struggles to attaining advancement, influence and authority over others, Machiavelli’s observations apply.
23. Walden by Henry David Thoreau – Thoreau spent two years, two months and two days writing this book in a secluded cabin near the banks of Walden Pond in Concord, Massachusetts. This is a story about being truly free from the pressures of society. The book can speak for itself: “I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived.”
24. The Republic by Plato – A gripping and enduring work of philosophy on how life should be lived, justice should be served, and leaders should lead. It also gives the reader a fundamental understanding of western political theory.
25. Lolita – This is the kind of book that blows your mind wide open to conflicting feelings of life, love and corruption… and at times makes you deeply question your own perceptions of each. The story is as devious as it is beautiful.
26. Getting Things Done by David Allen – The quintessential guide to organizing your life and getting things done. Nuff said.
27. How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie – This is the granddaddy of all self-improvement books. It is a comprehensive, easy to read guide for winning people over to your way of thinking in both business and personal relationships.
28. Lord of the Flies by William Golding – A powerful and alarming look at the possibilities for savagery in a lawless environment, where compassionate human reasoning is replaced by anarchistic, animal instinct.
29. The Grapes of Wrath by John Steinbeck – Steinbeck’s deeply touching tale about the survival of displaced families desperately searching for work in a nation stuck by depression will never cease to be relevant.
30. The Master and Margarita by Mikhail Bulgakov – This anticommunist masterpiece is a multifaceted novel about the clash between good and evil. It dives head first into the topics of greed, corruption and deception as they relate to human nature.
31. BONUS: How To Cook Everything by Mark Bittman – 900 pages of simple instructions on how to cook everything you could ever dream of eating. Pretty much the greatest cookbook ever written. Get through a few recipes each week, and you’ll be a master chef by the time you’re 30.
32. BONUS: Honeymoon with My Brother by Franz Wisner – Franz Wisner had it all… a great job and a beautiful fiancée. Life was good. But then his fiancée dumped him days before their wedding, and his boss basically fired him. So he dragged his younger brother to Costa Rica for his already-scheduled honeymoon and they never turned back… around the world they went for two full years. This is a fun, heartfelt adventure story about life, relationships, and self discovery."

2008-11-10

100 Essential Life Lessons

1. Make being happy a priority.

2. Travel; see as much of the world as you can

3. Learn to play a musical instrument.

4. Live beneath your means.

5. Forgive yourself. Forgive others; for your sake, not theirs.

6. Learn to swim.

7. Don’t postpone joy.

8. Take responsibility for your life.

9. Remember Henry Ford’s admonishment: “Whether you think you can or whether you think you can’t, you’re right.”

10. Set S-M-A-R-T goals.

11. Set small goals in the short run and big goals in the long run.

12. Pay yourself first: save 10% of what you earn.

13. Remember there are always two sides to every story.

14. Give 10% of your earnings to the less fortunate.

15. Don’t go into bad debt.

16. Create your own definition of success.

17. Don’t smoke. Don’t abuse alcohol. Don’t do drugs.

18. Remember the four R’s: reduce, reuse, recycle, recover.

19. Follow the golden rule: treat others like you want them to treat you.

20. Get regular exercise.

21. Follow a healthy diet. Eat lots of antioxidants, omega 3 fatty acids, and whole grains.

22. Learn CPR.

23. Learn a foreign language.

24. Become an expert at something.

25. Write a book.

26. Be kind to children and animals.

27. Know basic history and geography.

28. Cultivate your emotional intelligence.

29. Keep a first aid kit in your house and in your car.

30. Have regular medical and dental checkups.

31. Learn to take compliments.

32. Learn to take criticism.

33. Be authentic.

34. Don’t take action when you’re angry.

35. Choose your spouse carefully; much of your happiness will depend on this one decision.

36. Worry is a waste of time.

37. Never drive when you’ve been drinking.

38. Never give up.

39. Drink lots of water.

40. Learn something new every day.

41. Continuously count your blessings.

42. Don’t gossip.

43. Become an expert in time management.

44. Follow your instincts; rely on your intuition.

45. Acknowledge those who have helped you.

46. Find a mentor.

47. Read voraciously.

48. Be as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are of your own.

49. Don’t procrastinate.

50. Make a bucket list; refer to it often.

51. Smile a lot; laugh a lot.

52. Admit your mistakes.

53. Keep informed, whether it’s by reading the daily paper, watching the news, or reading a periodical such as “Time” or “Newsweek”.

54. Meditate. Take up yoga. Set aside quiet time every day.

55. Get organized.

56. Don’t buy things you don’t need just because they’re on sale.

57. Cherish your friends.

58. Look for opportunities to praise others.

59. Don’t take yourself too seriously.

60. During difficult times remember this: “And this too shall pass.”

61. When things go wrong remember that few things are as bad as they first seem.

62. Keep in mind that mistakes are stepping stones to success. Don’t be afraid to fail.

63. Have a plan.

64. Choose your friends wisely: 80% of your life experiences—both the good and the bad–will come as a direct result of the people you hang around with.

65. Be remarkable.

66. Persevere.

67. Know when to cut your losses.

68. Have a magnum opus.

69. Keep in mind that life is not a dress rehearsal.

70. If you don’t know the answer, say so; then go and find the answer.

71. Remember that one of life’s only constants is change.

72. Ask for what you want.

73. Create value for others.

74. Apply the power of leverage: leverage your money and your time.

75. Develop multiple streams of income.

76. Be your own boss: start your own business.

77. Don’t renege on your promises, whether to others or to yourself.

78. Examine your beliefs on a regular basis and ask yourself if what you believe is serving you well.

79. Feel the fear and then do it anyway.

80. Don’t worry about what other people think.

81. Listen to the advice of others but then make your own decisions.

82. Change the things you can and accept the things you can’t.

83. Cultivate your creativity.

84. Develop your listening skills.

85. Decide what you want.

86. Focus on what you want instead of thinking about what you don’t want.

87. Begin; every journey begins by taking the first step.

88. Have fun.

89. Every time you fall simply get up again.

90. Strive for excellence, not for perfection.

91. Learn to live in the present moment.

92. Be proactive.

93. Choose your battles wisely.

94. Don’t argue for your limitations.

95. Learn to see the extraordinary in the ordinary.

96. Listen to Eleanor Roosevelt’s advice: “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”

97. Find work you love.

98. Remember the motto: “You catch more flies with honey.”

99. Take a course on personal finances in college.

100. Fill your life with love."